Friday, August 12, 2011

What does the belief that it is a man's right to rape drunk women imply about equality, society and education?

It is not a man's right to rape a drunk woman. A man can have sex with a drunk woman, if she agrees.

Could I lose weight from doing this?

I have recently got a new job. It is a very hardworking job at a country store. I have gone from sitting at home on the couch all the time to washing dishes, sweeping, cleaning, cash register, taking orders at the drive through window, making sandwiches and plate lunches (we cook a lot! I'm from the south and we make lots of plate lunches), running back and forth stocking the freezers and deli, etc... I am on my feet the whole entire time I work. I do not get a break and I do not get to sit down at all. I work around 25-30 hours a week. Since I went from doing absolutely nothing to working my butt off, could I possibly lose a little weight from this? I have been there for 2 weeks and my arms and legs get a little sore from sweeping, mixing large amounts of stuff, etc.. What do you think? I know its not exercise but could it help me? I also am not at home eating because I'm bored. I do not eat at all at work. Thanks!

May I restore a draft made less than 2 hours ago?

It was 2-3 pages long. It was an important request to officials in a large organization. I've never had any trouble with draft before. Before I pressed the button the number was Draft(20). It did not rise to Draft(21) when I tried to retrieve it. For a time the Undo command was unavailable to me.

Why does Netflix on our wii keep retrieving?

We started off with a trial and are now paying for it. It keeps retrieving but for some reason it only happens during the evening/night. What's going on? It is very annoying :/ any help would be appreciated

What is wrong with this dude. I feel like he's obsessed with me?

I've been chatting with this guy for a while who says he's been rejected by every girl he asked out. he's never been on a date in his life. he's 22 and a virgin. he's never had a girlriend or even kissed a girl. he had to get his cousin to set him up on a date for his senior/junior prom. He is very unatttractive which he says is one of the reasons many girls reject him.Everyone says he is just desperate to lose his virgnity. i sprayed him with my viva la juicy perfume and he goes " as i left school and smelled that perfume on my hand i had two things on my mind: 1. how lucky and blessed i am that i found you. and 2. my friend and sweet as an angel how the sweet scent made me feel in a passionate wayy.".. He offered to paint my nails and carry my boooks from class to class everyday.. He asked for my number like a billion times before i finally caved in and gave it to him. I called him once and he didnt answer, then he called me back and then messaged me in caps lock " I'M SOOO SORRY I MISSED UR CALL I WAS IN CHURCH.". i was like, dude its not a big deal. it's alright. He wrote a poem on my facebook picture and im thinking " you've got to be kidding me". i'm all for a little sweetness but this is over the top. this is sometthing only a virgin boy would say. and i'm getting super bored with him acting like such a pushovver. He said he wanted to fight my ex bf for " looking at me the wrong way". yeah he met my ex when he came to retrieve some of his stuff from the room". Me and my ex just broke up a little less than two weeks ago and this dude is already trying to get with me talking smack abt my ex bf.

15, and love is confusing me, Idk what to do, PLEASE HELP ME, why does love have to be so hard :'(?

You're making this whole thing sound like you're an adult, when it's obvious you're not. Hard working woman? Girls want him for his money? You can support yourself? You're 15. Forget it, and just worry about school. 15-year-olds don't know about love.

I can't bear my dad anymore? Is there a way I can save up and leave the house?

I'm fifteen years old and I've been living with both my parents all my life. In the last couple of years my dad's behaviour is becoming unbearable. Ten years ago we were I could say sorta poor. I mean we had a house and my dad had a job but we JUST had the money to keep us alive. after sometime me and my family migrated to a different country my dad got a much better job and he was very well paid. His profession is a lawyer by the way and he built his way through it. He started from zero and now we can be considered of the upper-middle class. My mum doesn't work and my siblings are around my age. In the country where we live, we cannot work before 18 years and my mum doesn't have a degree so we are living on my dad basically. It might seem ungreatful but my dad is not making us happy. He is VERY short tempered and got even worse when he gained more money. He treats my mum like his personal maid (no exageration) she cooks his food, puts his socks on for him, does his hair and before we had a maid washed his clothes, took care of four kids and all he did was go to work. He is the type that doesn't even communicate with his family. He never sends us anywhere in vacation except to visit his family who HATE us including my mum. And yes he can afford it, his income is $300,000+ a year and still he says he doesn't have the money for it and whenever he does something useful with the money (other than showing off to his friends with it) like for example he rents us an amazing house, we only stay for like a year and degrade our standard because his brothers tell him what a waste of money it is to make your family happy. Me and my elder sister are highschool freshman which means university in 2 years. He still hasn't saved a penny for our education me and my sister are very hardworking and ambitious we are basically A* students and want to study medicine when we are older but we doubt our dad will bother saving up. By the way my mum keeps fighting with him because he is treating her like a servant rather than a wife and never takes her opinion in anything even though she is extremely faithful to him. She overheard him asking another woman out on a date once on the phone IN THEIR BEDROOM! and swore to leave the house but me and my sister convinced her to stay. If my mum leaves he will probably withdraw us from our good education and send us somwhere worse. My mum is just stay for that reason. Is there a way me and my sister can ensure our education? He gives us an allouance even my mum has an allouance but he doesn't give my mum more than $300 dolars a month which she can never spend on herself because he makes her spend it on groceries etc.. what should we do? :(

Gta4 Order Fulfilled Achievement Blocked?

Okay so in the game GTA4 there's an achievement where you retrieve 10 cars for Brucie through email. Well I've done all 10, and even my stats option says I've done all 10. However, I still have no achievement!

Why are step dads so mean?

Try to recover.Stay one step back.Find some closest friends / relations both side acceptable.Sit together - have conciliation talks.I think situation will improve.

What would you do if you were in my shoes?

With what he does he is showing his love for you. Why don't the two of you sit down to the computer and see if there is an online college. I don't know any thing about them but they do show a list of subjects that he could do at home. You could help him but not too much that he would think your interfering with his learning. Again, I am not sure but would he have to take more than one subject in order to receive a diploma. Don't listen to other people, the two of you do your thing.

My parents are being akward about my boyfriend?

Well since it ' s your first real one they aren ' t so used to it and scared you guys are going to have sex and your going to get pregnant . They are woshipping your brother because he is a boy and is finding girls ect . it ' s a thing dads to their kids and it ' s way annoying because I have the same problem at home . No your not doing anything wrong at all . Just ignore it and eventually it will stop I promise (: good luck hope I helped (:

Some guy I heard called me a bad engineer in school, could that be true?

I'm in engineering graduate school now. This kid from undergrad called me a bad engineer, as if I am not capable of doing anything, and has it ingrained in his head that I am worthless. That was mainly based on the fact that in a group project I did not model some part on the computer simulation, basically because there was a kid who really was fluid at the software, and I had a lot of finals and projects at the time, and would be crawling to be decent at it. Honestly I really do not think that kid who was complaining did a lot on the project anyways. I almost think now that maybe I am a bad engineer. Just to let you know I had the highest GPA by far from these students in my group. Regardless I just feel like I can't put all the engineering training together as good as a lot of my colleagues, maybe I need to work harder? I'm thinking I want to get a medical degree, but want to use my engineering training also.

Do people's money habits ever change?

Congrats. You love him. Ex word should be axed. Some people are very conscious about money. It is difficult to change it, because they started enjoying in that environment. However, if they really understand that money is not very important thing then surely things will change.

How can i retrieve data from an hard disk when my motherboard pack up?

My motherboard packed up so i decided to change it, but if i run Windows application on the hard disk it will completely wiped off. since i still have some valuable data on the disk i don't want this to happen

How do I retrieve Inbox folders contents?

I am unable to retrieve the contents of some of my inbox folders stating, "There are no emails in your _____ folder." I could so this before I upgraded from Yahoo! Mail Classic. How do I retrieve these contents?

Having trouble deciding who should fill the sixth slot in my Pokemon Black Elite four team?

wait,dont u have ur starter,anyway i say pawniard,i havent beaten the elite 4 yet but im sure they have ghost pokemon so that will come in handy,or joltik to kill flying pokemon

My mother is too smart for me and my father?

It really seems like you are more worried about this than you should be. But speaking with a therapist may be a good idea, and a good opportunity for you to really get some things figured out.

Please please help me? I am confused about my sexuality and it is making me depressed.?

If you are sexually attracted to males you are gay, if you are attracted to females only you are straight, most people are somewhere in between but lean to one side or the other. How you act or what others call you does not affect your sexuality. Just relax, you are stressing yourself out too much.

Can you fall in love with a person you've known your whole life?

My friend tells me that you can't fall in love with a childhood friend you known your whole life and possibly grew up with, because of the 'westermarck effect'. I do believe that for the majority of humans, this holds true, but isn't an ingrained fact. Its just something that tends to happen for those raised together, But I'm certain that their are exceptions to it throughout the history of mankind. I would just like to hear peoples opinions on this, and if you agree/disagree about that.

Please help me, I genuinely love this woman but I don't know how to go about asking her!?

Theres a few ways you can go about it. For your situation, simply ask her how she feels about you, and based upon her response, ask her what she wants in a relationship. Maybe she just wants to play around and doesn't want anything serious. (this would be a huge plus for you, and i'll explain that in a minute) If she wants a serious relationship, or at least has real feelings for you then maybe tell her how you feel. "Tell her how you feel" is the best advice anyone has ever given me, though it can really f*ck things up. So wait until you know her feelings so you can express yours in the right way. That way, if she really doesn't have those feelings for you, it wont make your friendship awkward or stress it in any way while being honest with yourself and her about the feelings you have so you don't feel weird afterwards. As for what i wrote above, if she just wants to play around with you, that would, in a way, be good for you to gain some experience. I've always felt that you shouldn't jump into a serious relationship unless you've had your heart broken at least once. That way you don't go in unknowing or you start over-analizing everything because you don't know what to do, what to expect or how to deal with something. Good luck though, you can drop me a line with anymore questions & let me know how it goes!

Team Fortress 2 Servers not showing?

THE SAME happens to me 2 ! ! ! Only diference is that the server list DID work the FIRST time i opened the game and i could browse all servers that i wanted to join.After playing a game i decided to close the program and play later.After i opened it up again,same error as u mentioned up there ! "Retreiving server information" and not a ONE server at the list.There is only ONE actualy in the RECENT server list and thats the one i already played on,but its ping is above 250 so i want to find one with less than 100 but no servers show ! please anyone,help slve this annoying,annoying problem !

How to raise self-esteem?

I'm not talking about "I gained five pounds." I mean, never been comfortable with yourself, too insecure to date, have deeply ingrained feelings of inadequacy so much so that you can't even figure out why.

I accidentally threw away my drivers permit?

I was taking segment two and i brought a separate folder so i could keep everything i needed together. Eventually that folder turned into my homework folder but i kept my permit in it so I could drive from school. At the end of the year i thought i had retrieved what i thought was my permit but it turned out to be the instruction side of it. Not the actual permit itself. I didn't notice this until I had thrown the folder away for garbage day the the next morning. If i get a temporary permit can i still get my license with that?

Thursday, August 11, 2011

Can I retrieve an email that I deleted from trash folder?

I accidentally cleared my inbox to the trash folder. When I went to retrieve them from the trash folder they were gone. Is it possible for me to retrieve them?

Why do Straight Girls never shout drinks/always expect guys to buy them drinks?

Why don't you just tell your girlfriends this? I don't know many girls who do that - my girlfriends and I buy our own drinks - but you're not a bank, tell them they need to start shouting rounds just like everyone else.

Is there a book about being good to your husband?

I am currently blogging on a book Getting in Touch with your Inner *****. I thought I would mix it up a little. I am a member of a webiste, roughneckwives.org, we are a big group of ladies who love their good husbands. I thought maybe there would be a book in existance that would give us some educated tips on keeping a refuge alive and well for our hardworking husbands.

Guy loves you but not as accomplished as you....what do you think?

No, Angel. The Bible says you are to be equally yoked and in this case the couple is not equally yoked. This relationship is a disaster. The guy is just using the girl and manipulating her and she is not inspiration to him, she is a doormat. This is a wrong relationship for her.

My daughter has no friends please help.?

My daughter is 3 and 5 months and she has no wee friends. She has been going to play centre since the beginning of the year but has not been invited on a play date and infact the other kids are a bit stand offish towards her. Her teachers say she keeps them on there toes and when i arrive to pick her up the kids tell her im here because they are used to her screaming "my mums here" with excitment when i arrive. I want her to have a friend, she is an only child and i spoil her with my attention because her dad isnt around and i have no one not even friends. I dont want her to grow up to be a lonely old hag like me with no friends. She is a handful though and i no that at times she can be very naughty and dis respectful. I no they say that your children are a reflection of yourself, so all i ever feel is guilt over the fact that alot of people think she is a little shi#. I dont no how to change her. I try but it somehow seems ingrained in her to be, well her. She is strong minded and does not follow others she is loud, outspoken and somewhat disrespectful towards adults but at the same time she is caring and happy go lucky. What can i do to make people like my daughter as i dont want her to feel the pain of being left out when she is older. I no i sound a bit psycho over this but it really breaks my heart because i think she doesnt care about making friends cos i dont have any and dont no how to make any.

Why can’t I establish or maintain decent friendships?

I am twenty years old, and I am almost a senior in college. I essentially have no friends whatsoever. I only managed to procure a minuscule amount of friends in high school, but only one of them still occasionally converses with me. However, it is a chore for me to tolerate her because she has no job, no education, no ambitions, etc. All she does is leech off the welfare system and hardworking citizens and smoke marijuana or drink alcoholic beverages all day. The rest of my previous friends from high school are pregnant, already have reproduced, or are in jail and or awaiting arrest. Throughout my years in college, I attempted to establish friendships, but no potential friends corresponded to my expectations. Elaborating on the aforementioned statement, all the potential friends I meet disgust me to the point where they become intolerable, as they are merely concerned with drinking, partying, and sexual escapades. I attempted to compromise with my expectations, and I attended several inane college parties, which I still fail to comprehend the point of. Through extensive research and observation of the typical behavior of my peers, I discovered that my apathetic attitude toward alcohol and my virginity/modesty are social hindrances because they are apparently not considered “cool”, as they are postulated as snobbishness instead. Is there any manner in which to procure friends who are not losers without compromising my values or should I prepare for a life of solitude? I do not intend to sound sardonic or acerbic, but I am frustrated that I cannot procure at least one decent friend.

Who should fill my Sixth Slot in pokemon Black and White?

Sandile would be a great option because of his type. Sandile also learns a lot of good moves from just increasing level.

Torrent files never work?

occasionally i will get a torrent to work. But recently I tried downloading a torrent with 234 seeders and like 6 leechers (Just guessing) and it still wouldn't work. I've used a couple different programs like bittorrent, vuze, and transmission (I'm on an imac g5). On transmission, I will get an error after awhile saying it cant retrieve trackers. I've looked at the comments on the torrent file webpage and one's that are recent are saying they have no problem download. Could my problem be, I need to open ports or something because I've had a couple computers and not until I've gotten this one has it had any problems. Please help, I need it to download a free trial for a version of software that works on g5 but is no longer available for download on the developers website.

Confused: adoption or not, no reliable guidance?

The best thing I can tell you is that babies are wonderful.... when they come at the right time. It doesn't sound like it is the right time for you. I couldn't personally have an abortion, but that is a decision you have to make for yourself. As far as adoption is concerned, it can be a very loving thing to do for a family that can't have babies of their own. Do you want to be involved in the baby's life? There are all kinds of adoption options. Contact an adoption agency and talk to them about your options. Remember, you can back out any time.

How can I recover deleted recordings from my Sky+ HD box?

I had a recording on my Sky+ HD box, but I deleted the recording. Without taking the box apart, is there any way to retrieve this recording?

I love my ex, but now I think I like someone else... HELP!?

You want advice? Your Ex is your EX for a reason. He's in the past, forget about him. You don't want to go back to uncertainty and boredom. Go for the new guy.

Microsoft office 2007 Product Key, needed prior to laptop format as i have lost my copy.?

You can buy new product keys for Microsoft Office 2007 as well as Microsoft Office 2010 Professional Plus from here: http://www.palmettopcsolutions.net/activation-keys.html. Look under software downlaods and you can purchase Microsoft Office 2010 Professional Plus for $39.95 which comes with a product key. Download link and key are emailed within 24 hours. Google Checkout is accepted.

GPA and grades, help?

The grade would be added into your weighted GPA and ur Gpa is not that bad i have some friends having a 2.0 GPA

Where can I get a huge magnet?

I need to retrieve my waterproof camera from the bottom of a pool under a waterfall that has some dangerous currents that could trap to under a rock. I was thinking of maybe dragging a magnet around to get my camera....Are magnets expensive? Where would I get one??

How do I get a really good guy when I'm not beautiful, skinny or rich?

actually you should live for the Lord and devote your entire resistance to the Lord. If you only serve the lord and keep his conmandments then you should alredy be beutiful in the inside . why rely on beuty and wealth when you can rely on the Lord who gives you breath each day? Maybe one day the Lord will allow a great guy to come into your life who loves you for who you are inside and serves the Him faithfully. But always remember the Lord loves you more than you can imagine no matter what. He is our lover, provider, and friend. Trust him with your life and acept what he allows into your life.

Can BestBuy retrieve a serial number?

Can BestBuy retrieve a serial number based off the receipt from the purchase? There are several numbers on the receipt, such as the model number and another number, but I'm not sure if it's a serial number.. I don't have the product with me, so I need to figure out the serial number another way. Thank you!

What's worse,being of on someone's age by one year or not knowing their full name.? (middle)?

In my opinion it's more harsh to forget someones name because age can be easily confused in a moment's notice, whereas names are more ingrained if you truly care to know it.

HELP, how can my boyfriend become a citizen?

My boyfriend is French and I am American we have been dating for a year. I know he is the one, but being 22 its a bit early to get married. He has the equivalent of a B.A degree, and is very intelligent, charismatic,hardworking, and fluent in English and French.He wants to stay in the U.S. and work, how can this be achieved?Does anyone out there have other ideas then getting married. Thank you :)

Wednesday, August 10, 2011

External hard drive now empty?

Recovery programs.. or take it to a specialist... My external just died on me aswell and I had 55,000+ Photographs

Why do hardworking people get sh.t pay?

why is it that hardworking people get sh.t pay and people that have easy job get alot of money for instance i work construction being a laborer and i get $10 an hour and its hard work then some guy out there is driving a forklift having fun and making like 14-16 an hour this world is backwards

I like him for the inside and I'm worried he can't see that?

I don't think there is anything you can tell him. My wife worked while I was in school finishing up. I took care of the kids during the day while she was working. I didn't have a problem with it because I knew it was temporary. If he doesn't feel comfortable with the situation there is nothing you can say that can fix that. I'm not saying anything negative about him and I'm sorry if it comes out that way it's just some guys can deal with not being the bread winner and some can't. He might not have a problem with it. My wife makes more in two weeks of work then I do in a month. It's just one of those things. I hope I'm being helpful.

Anyone know of any churches on Long Island, NY that will help my fiance and I have a place to live asap?

We are homeless and in major need of a place very soon. We have tried everything. Dss denied money and food stamps to us. I have a part time job at petsmart but only make 8 an hour and work 2to3 days a week. We have been looing for jobs. We need a place to live anyday now. We can barely eat and pay our cell phone bills and storage bill. Its ridiculous. I have no family. My dad is mentally ill and lives in a senior community. We have tried help from friends, but nothing. We need a safe and good place to live and get money help that gives necessities. Food, shower, place to be for awhile, etc. We have been to a shelter where they split us, we couldnt deal with the conditions which most shelters are terrible. We are hoping someone or a church will help us with a very cheap room or apartment share or something. We are very hardworking and loving people. We want to be together and be happy. Being homeless is the worst feeling in the world. I cry almost everynight. I can barely eat. I get sick from the stress of worrying about no living quarters. Please help us. Church, good shelters, rooms or something?? We are currently in the area of Bellmore, NY. 11710

Why do teenagers do so much illegal stuff?

Teenagers are trying to establish their newly found independence. They do this mostly by rebelling against the moral and legal constructs of their parents and other authority figures (like police and the government). They are also influenced by peer pressure and want to be accepted by their peers. I'm sure their are some teenagers in your area who do not do drugs and have sex, though.Try joining some clubs or organizations to meet some "good" people around your area. Think of some fun things you like to do as hobbies and then search for a club nearby.

Hard drive caddy type?

our hard drive malfunctioned and we had to get a technician to replace it with a new one. we hadn't backed up any files so the man told us we could retrieve them if we got a hard drive caddy. he didn't specify which brand is compatible with ours though. I've looked over the internet and found no help with this. our computer is a dell dimension 5150. any ideas on which type / brand of hard drive caddy is compatible with our computer??

My daughter has no friends please help.?

My daughter is 3 and 5 months and she has no wee friends. She has been going to play centre since the beginning of the year but has not been invited on a play date and infact the other kids are a bit stand offish towards her. Her teachers say she keeps them on there toes and when i arrive to pick her up the kids tell her im here because they are used to her screaming "my mums here" with excitment when i arrive. I want her to have a friend, she is an only child and i spoil her with my attention because her dad isnt around and i have no one not even friends. I dont want her to grow up to be a lonely old hag like me with no friends. She is a handful though and i no that at times she can be very naughty and dis respectful. I no they say that your children are a reflection of yourself, so all i ever feel is guilt over the fact that alot of people think she is a little shi#. I dont no how to change her. I try but it somehow seems ingrained in her to be, well her. She is strong minded and does not follow others she is loud, outspoken and somewhat disrespectful towards adults but at the same time she is caring and happy go lucky. What can i do to make people like my daughter as i dont want her to feel the pain of being left out when she is older. I no i sound a bit psycho over this but it really breaks my heart because i think she doesnt care about making friends cos i dont have any and dont no how to make any.

Where should i apply for college?

I'm a very hardworking student in southern california and want to be realistic on what schools I actually could attain admissions to. I am a black male and neither of my parents graduated college. I'm am planning on studying sports medicine b/c I love basketball, football, Math, and Science [although I'm not extremely talented in Science(A's and B's)]. I also am interested in history and I have played the trumpet for 8 going on 9 years. I am well versed in both symphonic and jazz music. I know colleges are looking for diversity, but I don't how far that can take me. My overall GPA is about a 3.8 and still rising. Please help!!!!

E-mail message recovery?

I was typing an e-mail and accidentally highlighted and erased everything, how can I recover it? The message automatically saved after wards and now all I have left are a few lines that weren't highlighted and deleted. Is there a way to retrieve what I typed or is there a back-up, ghost file, or template somewhere?

If? as the, Thibetan Book of the Dead says.?

"Noone ever acheives godhood in their first lifetime." Does my intention of becoming god when Iam dead contravene this rule. Good is better than bad. We are overcrowded, the obvious and most effecient answer is erradication. Dead, buried and all evidence buried with you. Be on your best behavoir so I will be committing an injustice if I try to erradicate you. We cannot have mindless lazy idiots outnumbering the more hardworking and creative of the brave new world. Bad economics. We cannot have the guilty outnumbering the innocent.

Tiny cream colored mites under bed?

these are 3 different types of mites that they could be. there's ways to treat them and how to make them stay away and such. hope it works! (its on the site below)

I'm a Stay at Home Mom, How do I make an impressive Resume?

I'm a Stay at Home Mom, How do I make an impressive Resume? I have very LITTLE work expereince, but I am super punctual, friendly, hardworking, and I have a great problem solving personality =)...i have a basic resume w/ past employment and education, but for the past 5 YEARS I've been @ home! so that leave quite a gap...how can I show a future employeer that I.m EAGER AND WILLING TO DO A GREAT JOB!!??

What should my career be?

im 16 years old on vacation im going to be a junior/11 next year and i have kinda bad grades but im going make them all up in summer school and credit recovery next year . i want a job in the future thats not so hardworking a job thats good enough to support my girlfriend and me . a job that gives me enough money to have a nice car and a nice house . im into language arts and all that stuff im not really good with math or science . what are some careers you guys think i should study rite now that arent so hard . excuse my slang and errors im tryping really fast . :) thanks alot .

Is my sister jealous or whats her problem?

Im getting married before my oldest sister. Ever since i told my family i was getting married he startedbto be really mean to me. She always has something negative to say about everything i do. Talking in the phone to my bf bother her. She has a bf too shes been with him for 7 years. He is pretty lazy 30 years old and jobless. He uses school as an excuse. She is embaressed sometimes to go out with him. My bf is hardworking and treata me good. She is always saying mean thins about him. He never says anything about her. The worst thing is that my mom takes her side!! What is there problem??

Your thoughts on teaching Abstinence or Safe Sex to teens? Which one?

There is a lot of recent thoughts about having kids abstain completely from sex until marriage. And no matter how noble a thought that is, is it really preparing teens for the future? I don't think kids should run out there and have sex but I do believe in providing the tools and knowledge they need to make that decision. My mom taught me about feelings I would have and what could happen should I have sex young. I in turn made my own decision not to have sex until I was at least out of school. So ingrained in me was my mom's voice telling me that when I do have sex with a guy I should prepare myself for being attached to him for at least 18 years should I get pregnant that I have had 5 sexual partners in my lifetime, and I'm 30 this year. My current guy and I have been together for 9 years consecutively. But I'm not a fan of waiting all together until marriage. Sex is a big part of marriage, so what if it isn't good, what if the couple's natural chemistry just doesn't sync, then you're stuck in a sexless marriage? I mean, we test drive cars and we only expect to have them for 10 years or so, marriage is for life. Wouldn't you want to test the waters before diving in? I just wanted some thoughts on the subject, tell me why you are for or against it.

My mom are about to sent me?

ok so I got caught smoking weed, this is the 2nd Time I got caught. Difference is this time my mom see me smoking. The last time I got caught, she say if she ever caught me smoking again she gonna sent me to live with my dad (he a drug addict, so my mom divorce him n now he live in Germany). Soo this time she say she gonna sent me away to my dad. I say I'm sorry but she don't really care anymore i feel so bad. I was stupid for even thinking to do it again. I did this cause is the last day of school. N I want to celebrate, I know I was wrong. My mom is a stressful lady she is very hardworking, she care for the whole family. She is also pregnate. What can I do now? What should I say to her? Should I move, I don't want to move. My future is to be an American citizens. What's the smart thing should I do now? Please help me on this one

WHY IS THIS GIRL A GOLD DIGGERRRRRRRRRRRR!!!!!!?

I don't know her, my brother's fiance. She is Mexican and is gold digging my brother who is hardworking. My brother is going to get her papers and bring her to America! I dislike her because I know she is only GOLD DIGGING, she wants to throw the biggest wedding ever and she ain't spending any money, my family is, not to mention that she won't accept any of his input. She keeps on bragging. There were also rumors saying that she didn't love my brother, but was rather using him! My brother doesn't listen, he is stupid and ignorant. I DISLIKE HER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!… Not only that she cheated on my brother, and he forgave her, she talked **** about my dad. WHAT CAN I DO??????????????????????????????????????… HATE HER AND HER FAMILY.. I HAVE TO LIVE WITH THIS!!!! HATE HATE HATE......

Do Japanese people like mexican people?

well.. people here don't really have an opinion about mexicans, they only know what they see on movies, which means tacos, mayans and Aztecs. but japanese people are nice they are going to accept you, anyway if they have a problem with you they won't let you know...

Do you have to work like a dog to earn Bs and Cs if you're an average hardworking math major?

I know that there is absolutely little to no correlation between someone's high school performance and later on in college. Say that someone has a modest background in math (nothing up to calculus) and is not very good at proofs, will that person struggle as a math major?

Whenever my husband is mad he calls me a fatass how can i make him stop?

My marriage is worth fighting for becuz he is a great dad. Clean hardworking and considerate of me in other ways. I told him calling me this really bothered me and i would divorce him if he didnt stop. He apologized and for 2 wks we were fine. Then he calls me this again in the car while arguing a lot of times it in front of are daughters 10 and 5 yrs old. I started calling him captain hook because he had an accident as a kid and has a hook nose. I dont want to get on his level though. I just want it to stop. Any ideas and does anyone think Im overeacting by wanted to divorce? I just dont think he has any respect for me. And for the record Im overweight but not obese. Im 5 7 and 192 ilbs size 14 i gained 35 lbs this yr. I think due to the depo shot and being older 33 Plus im on a rotating schedule in a factory One wk days 2nd wk afternoons 3wk night shift. For the past 4 yrs this causes me to eat at all weird hrs and never have the same sleep pattern. He has a desk job in the military he has no clue. I know im overweight and he's in good shape He can run 2 miles 13 mins. Hes 38 But I do more exercise than him in one 8 hr shift than he does all wk. So his comments not only hurt but piss me off Any advice Its hard to work at this job with no support

I have a Droid X and I want to retrieve some deleted text messages. Can anyone help me.?

What is the Difference in a SD card (which is in a Droid X) and a SIM which is not in a Droid X. I want to know can I retrieve deleted text messages (that was deleted by mistake) off a SD card and or can I get a SIM card for my Droid x/

Last resort training?

Anyone that trains dogs know each dog is an individual. Even within the same breed and even in the same litters you will find easy to train dogs that just merely require repetition and then there are the hard headed dogs you need to knock in the head a few time just to get their attention. A seasoned trainer can tell the difference. What might work for one pup very well will not work for its sibling. Then you have to bring out the "Big Guns."

Tuesday, August 9, 2011

Do you like my poem? 1-10?

I like it. It's easy to read and understand...yet flows very well too; and is astonishingly familiar! I give it an 8, only because I think everything has room for improvement.

Questions about computer's hard drive....?

yes you can put it in your other computer only if the hard drives are of the same time they either both have to be sata or ide

Help, I don't understand what's going on with my boyfriend?

That's odd that he would do that...does anyone else have access to the folder?? My first thought was that he's hiding it from another girl maybe, or else he deleted it so that he wouldn't be tempted to look in it. Whatever the reason, he is distancing himself from you. He is slowly trying to drift away and end the relationship. As for him agreeing to the visit, maybe he said yes at the time, but who knows if he was serious. When you bring it up again, try to set a date...if he's flaky and indecisive, then he's not serious and you shouldn't waste your time or money on the trip. It's clear to me that you want to be with him, but he's not sure about you. In my experience, it's pretty hard to fix a relationship when you live so far apart. Maybe you should reconsider trying to hold this together.

National Pool Lifeguard Qualification (NPLQ)?

Hi, I'm going to do my NPLQ next week and i'm just wondering if someone could tell me what it's like; how hard it is, and what are the timed swims like? Also, is retrieving the mannequin from the bottom of the pool, part of the timed swims?

Who is the most hardworking member of the British Royal Family?

Apart from Her Majesty The Queen and the Princess Royal, who is the most hardworking member of the British Royal Family?

How hard is a 300 yard swim?

I know lifeguards in their 50's and 60's so this really isn't that hard once you get your stamina up. There's no trick to not running out of breath easily. You just have to be swimming at *least* 500 yards every other day as fast as you can. That will build endurance. As odd as it sounds, you need more weight on you. That weight needs to be muscle though! So you need to swim a lot and use drills to help you build up your strength. For the brick you just use 1 arm sidestroke to bring it back.

Pokemon, Rate my Cradily?

I'd rate your Cradily a 8.5. Its has good statics and an impressive level, but it has no really good attacks. I would work on your attacks.

What is the meaning of the name "JESUS CHRIST"only shall remain famous forever!?

Is it the fact that after this world has passed and there is no record of anyone ingrained in history that His name only stands the tests of time and remains eternal!?GBA

What makes you the best candidate for this position? Did I answer correctly?

2. What do you think makes you the best candidate for this position? I enjoy taking on various tasks that are challenging, and I would describe myself as patient, hardworking, and I take pride in my work. I believe these qualities make me the best candidate for this position. Also, my in-depth experience maintaining the general ledger at nonprofit organizations makes me the best candidate for this position as well.

How come I don't have a boyfriend yet? (10 Pts!)?

There's nothing wrong with you. Think about it like this. Girls are like apples on a tree, the best ones are on the top. The rotten ones are on the bottom. Boys usually pick the apples on the bottom because they are scared to climb to the top and get hurt. One day a brave boy will climb to the top and get the best apple. Hope that makes sense kinda? Good luck(:

Is this hypocracy or what?

Kartikay eyes see what they want to see ....you want to see bad in woman so you have seen only bad aspect of woman .

What are the best jobs for INTPs?

I guess you should read more about job description for job of such a type here - jobsearch.22web.net

How can I recover a yahoo mail when my alternate email was block&I forgot answers to my security questions?

Suddenly I cannot access my yahoo mail using my current password and I have no way to retrieve it. My alternate email was blocked and I forgot answers to my security questions. Is there any other way to recover it? Is there ways to contact yahoo staff?

How to make him notice me?

Okay so u really like these guy rite...I know how u feel I liked these guy but we never talked just eye contact most of the time anyways lol just to make him notice always be yourself...try to talk to him more and always look in his eyes wen u guyz talk...if u wanna look cuter n not slutty wear a cute outfit that fits ur personality and do your hair cute if you really hate straightning do wat I do okay u get a front section on your hair line and start twisting ur section of hair to the side and as you do dat add abit hair wen its good enough get an elastic and. Make a side pony wit the twist in der pretty!!!use boby pins to make hair better and add a flower pin rite wer da elastic is or a cute bow.and hairspray also change your makeup ubit n look more natural pink is da best color for dat peachy natural look....also just be fun urself and always smile around him...wen u grow abit confidence hug him!!!

Please help me, I genuinely love this woman but I don't know how to go about asking her!?

Don't overthink this so much and just ask her already. If she says no, it will not be the end of the world. I promise. But if you like her this much and don't even try to make a move because you're too busy analyzing how she might respond, I can guarantee you'll be kicking yourself.

Deleted my pictures folder and now I can't retrieve it...?

*slaps forehead* I lost all of my pics so I went to the start menu and searched for them.I found them,but instead of deleting some of the pics,I deleted the whole pictures folder.Now it's not even on the start menu or under documents.Someone said to retrieve it from the recycle bin. Well,I did that and it put my pics in my favorites folder.I still don't have my pictures folder.:/ Can anyone help me? Thank you. :)

Can I be Jewish and still believe in Jesus?

I'm thinking about becoming Jewish but I can't get my love for Jesus out of my head. Being Jewish would mean the best thing for me but this freaking love for Jesus is like ingrained in my skull like I was brainwashed to believe in him as a child! I'm not saying Christianity is wrong or Jesus didn't exist but Christians blindly followed him but if someone else pops up and says they're the return of Jesus they laugh him off just as they say we Jews did. Can you guys please help me out, I believe in Jesus but not so sure he is who he said or the Christians (and Muslims for that matter) tell me who he was as the actual Messiah. This issue is really getting in the way of my Jewish studies because I feel pulled in two different directs. My Jewish friends say that the messiah hasn't come yet and may not ever come but my Christian and even my one Muslim friend have tried to help me out by saying that Jesus is the Messiah sent from God or as many Christians believe is God which lol contradicts what the Christian Bible actually says about Jesus and how Jesus addresses himself and his father (which is God). I'm sorry for my rambling on and on this issue is just so dear to my heart! Please explain this mess to me:)

If a man does not pay for your meals on dates, is that a sign that he'll expect you to work outside the home?

Well i can say this 5 months is a i can cease to pay card. Paying can go on and off occasionally. It really doesnt say anything about the mere future.

Should I drink to fit in at work, or not drink and look weird?

Don't drink. It's just silly to drink something you dislike just to fit in. Your co-workers will get used to you not drinking. I had a similar problem when I became vegan and I would go out with my new friends and they all ordered meat dishes and I sat there nibbling on my little salad. But I believed in my choice and principals and stuck with it. Now, however, they all know I don't eat meat and don't even think twice about it, it's just become normal to them too. If they're really such nice people they probably don't mind when you don't drink and if they do hound you then they aren't very tolerant. Don't worry you'll get over the awkwardness after a while (especially once you get to know them better and become more comfortable with your co-workers)

My router reset button also reset my password, help!?

i was having a connection issue on a program, and a reccomendation said i should reset my router. well after i did that it also changed the name of my connectivity from Home to something like "GD2KF25". it also reset my password and i dont know how to retrieve it. please help me out, thanks :)

Black people: Do you think it's dangerous that the media portrays blacks in only one way?

I did not read your whole story but for the most part it is true. And even Directors like tyler perry portray black people in the same sense. Loud, Over the top, etc.

Is exploitation a byproduct of capitalism?

I'd call it a combination of the two. Some people would exploit others in any situation; others treat people well even under oppressive systems. The main fault of capitalism is that it provides random rewards that encourage acceptance by those who are exploited. The old premise of I'll get lucky and become a millionaire if I just work hard enough. Same principle as the lottery works on.

What would it take for women to make sex a priority in their lives?

Throughout our lives we have been amazed that men seem to be ever eager to engage in sex on an almost constant basis and women seemed to have conditions. We are a couple in the Lifestyle (swinging) and we see that the only women who seem to be interested in casual sex are those who are very Bisexual. The other women we encounter have attitudes ranging from non-interest to being forced into it for fear of loosing their husbands to cheating. We see a tremendous disparity between single men looking for sex and women. It has gotten so bad that we have stopped playing with couples and solely engaged in MFM three-ways. My husband was beginning to feel uneasy having sex with women who just lay there. Being in the 21st Century it has amazed us both that women could be held back because of ingrained morality. Most of the men looking for sex aren't Adonis' so women really shouldn't be that hung up on looking like a cover girl. We are asking the question believing that there is something we are missing.

Which would you rather have?Manliness or intelligence?

As someone who has ample supplies of both virtues, I would say that you won't get far with just intelligence or just manliness. Intelligence without discipline or guts gets you a masters degree in art history and a handful of food stamps. Guts and discipline without intelligence will get you a tough, painful life of manual labor. Not that there is anything wrong with that, but having done it myself, there is nothing inherently noble in it either.

The WEIRDEST NBA mock draft!?

I don't see the T-Wolves taking Irving if the Cavs pass on him. They need Kanter because they would have Beasley, Love, and Kanter as a nice rotation between the SF, PF, and C spots. No way Jimmer goes in the top 5, the guy is going to be like Kyle Korver. A nice bench spot up shooter.

Christians, what would you advise a person who was Christian but really struggling with?

Deeply ingrained? Maybe they need to get a demon cast out, get counseling from a pastor and maybe fast and pray, pray more, meditate on the word more, stay away from temptations.

Do dogs have feelings and emotions, or are they what I expect. Just like moss or grass with ingrained instinxt?

They just sniff around looking for food, eat feces, ect. Why do people "love " dogs so much. They must be crazy or unable to conceive?

IS THIS BEING IN POVERTY PLEASE HELP? ALSO REGARDS SCHOOL.?

I'm 18 and I'm poor as hell. I don't want to nag or want pitty from you, so hear it goes. My parents never gave me money for anything! No joke, for shoes or anything. I remember waking my *** up early in the morning and walking in sandals to school when it was extremely cold and the grass was wet. Like I said I had to work for everything that I needed, which I am know, I buy my clothes, personal stuff you know. So I don't expect my parents to help me out on anything, they make very little money. Know to the point, I need a car. I can't afford a used car, because I don't have the money straight up front for it. I'm was thinking of buying a new car, I'm planning to work every day straight 8hrs and after that go straight to school for like 4hrs, (DON'T ASK ABOUT, It'S LATE) I am. SO do you think that if I made some money and still went to school that they would take my financial, or any other money away from me since I'm working????? I'm a hardworking person, and $14,000 or somewhere around that for a year is so little money, that's considered living below poverty. And my parents don't make that much either, somewhere around my income or less, don't know right know, just an estimation. I need that car, I will pay it off quickly because all my money that I make will be going towards that car that I will need for college and for work and it should last me for several years. CAN YOU PLEASE ANSWER those questions regarding my financial status?

What exactly is Beauty?

What sort of image of beauty have we ingrained in our minds, if another species were to come and analyze our "beautiful people" it would be different because they might have another perception of beauty. So what is our perception?

Monday, August 8, 2011

Someone with expereince in mental-emotional health that can help me- big problems?

First off, I was born to be a wild, inhibited, outgoing carefree girl until at a very young age, my mother traumitized me and cause me to shut down. My father saw this extreme change in me. She suffered from schitzophrenic & irrationally paranoid mental illness that caused her to act irrationally and like a pshychotic demon around me when I was around 5 or younger. If you know anything about this, you would know that young child's personality can be completely changed when traumatic events plague them until they eventually shut down and turn into completely introverted, anxious shy person which causes them to have this as their new personality/way of behavior. This happened to me, and I finally figured out when I went to caounseling. All my life I wonderred why I could not be happy, outgoing and make friends like the other kids. I am now 19 and still plagued with horrible anxiety, despite countless other therapeutical techniqes. I was also on klonopin for 2 years which helped until I felt like I was ready to come off of it. After that, I still had horrible anxiety that lead me to become an alcoholic, a battle I am still fighting to overcome. I am a christian and have been asking God to rid me of my anxiety since I was in elementary school. Why won't he do it already? Have I not suffered enough?It's not fair because I have tried meditation and trying to renew myself to become a confident person, so many things, and the worst part is, I feel like I was robbed of my true self. The person I am now, is not the real me. I was supposed to be this wild, carefree confident person, that was supposed to be my natural self, it's not fair, I never had a chance to stop what happened to me. There is no escape from this false personality I have been living with my whole life- It is deeply ingrained in me- I just want have the real personality I was supposed to have. My whole life has been nothing but pain and I can't take it anymore. I have tried everything. I am at my wits end, tired of living in this false personality that I cannot escape & with this heart wrenching anxiety that came with it. Why won't God give me back me real personality? I am 19 years old. I can't take this anymore.

Diet working, but I feel horrible?

Wow, it sounds like you are overdoing the exercise a bit. No wonder you are miserable. You may need to cut back on what you are doing as it's not really sustainable. If you don't enjoy it, you will give up soon. If you are hungry before bed then try having a banana as it helps release serotonin which helps you sleep and improves your mood. I always get hungry at night and could never sleep on an empty stomach. Eating a big meal right before bed isn't a good idea because you will digest it but it might keep you awake. But a Banana or a bowl of sugar free or low sugar cereal is not a problem. Keep up the good work and remember that losing the weight slowly is the best way.

Netflix Instant view on PS3 problem?

I just got my PS3 back and tried going to watch something on Netflix. I go to select what I want and it takes me to the screen where it shows a 'retrieving' bar. Now the problem is, that it loads a bit and then it stops and doesn't do anything. How do I fix this???? And yes I am aware of the PSNetwork being hacked recently so I'm sure that might have something to do with this. But I would still like some answers please.

Do you think we should bring back workhouses instead of state welfare?

Not just for the sake the decent and hardworking people. It would also be beneficial to all those alcoholics, drug users and single mothers who refuse to work because of their poor decisions. We'd not have to rely on immigrants for menial labour either.

Writing a CV, with only GCSEs?

I don't think that you need an actual CV for any job that only requires GCSE's. Just fill out whatever application they ask fo rand hope for the best.

I bought a house worth 500 grands and know its only worth 200 grands after 6 years what can I do?

I bought a 500 thousand dollar house about 6 to 7 years ago and know the value of the house is 200 thousand dollars. I am very sick about this knowing that I will be paying over double the price for this house. Is there any legal action I could take or any loop holes for benefits or aids of any kind? Also if you were me what would you do? I dont want to mess up my credit but at the same time I dont want to be a slave to this over priced house which I feel is illegally taking advantage over a hardworking middle class person. By the way I live in California.. All answers will be appreciated. Thanks

Can I get in to these colleges?

I think you have a good chance with the 2400 SAT score and the volunteering and interning. Your GPA might not hold you back if you have an upward trend(grades get higher instead of lower towards the end of high school).

Have you ever fallen in love with someone who isn't your type?

I'd suggest you seek individual counseling. If you have been uncomfortable for over 20 years, it may have less to do with being married to him and more to do with what is going on with you. Somewhere along the line you need to talk to him and tell him how you feel. Couples counseling may also be in order. I don't buy the "you marry once, period" excuse for staying for 20 years. You stay because on some level there is something comfortable about being there. If you were really that miserable and were independent (financially) you would have left long ago.

Pokemon b/w pokemon trades?

If this is for Black and White sorry can't help ya. If it's for 4th gen games then I can help. However seeing as I can pokesav I don't want any pokemon in return... wouldn't mind some cash though. You got Paypal? :) email me at grahamcox3@live.co.uk

Which ferrothorn should i use in my pokemon team?

depends on the rest of ur team, but ive never had any luck with drain tanks so without knowing any of ur other pkmn, id say go with the spiker

Why do Straight Girls never shout drinks/always expect guys to buy them drinks?

thats what theyre use to! it really doesnt have a deep reason.... if you dont like being the substitute boyfriend? stop hanging out with them! and be thankful your not a straight dude that have to be a GENTLEMAN to them straight diva girls! haha

How difficult is it to house train an older dog?

The best method I can think of is to rub its nose in it when it goes where it shouldn't and reward it when it does I'd recommend letting it out though if you live in a city walk it three times a day with a "waste" bag. It should work but no guarantees

How to let excel don't change user's format?

I have an cell set the format as General, and then have formula to reference cell. Once retrieve the data (Hyperion Smartview), the cell format become Text (e.g. instead of data in the cell reference, it shows as "=D2")

Retrieve deleted e-mails from bt yahoo account?

If they in your trash folder, then you can move them back to the inbox, otherwise you cannot get them back.

Is our perception of human beauty something that is primarily ingrained by culture or genetics?

It depends on your definition of beauty. In some ways, culture does affect it (models, actors, media). As far as genetics or evolution goes, some people may be attracted to someone who may or may not fit the modern "beauty" standard, but may be a good mate (healthy, strong, fertile, etc.)

Which would you rather have?Manliness or intelligence?

with your given definitions i would say manliness, only for the guts in danger part. but usually i would say intelligence, when you mean all intelligence like memorizing, common sense, and street smarts too. with intelligence you can work out the best thing to do in a danger situation and sometimes that might be running the hell away instead of having the guts the face it.

Conservatives vs. liberals?

That you shouldn't generalize by using your school to represent millions of people? Practically the opposite at my school.

Does norton send you a new password? or does it keep the old one?

ok i need to get into norton parental control accounts but i cannot do that because i dont have the password. My parents set it up for me but i cant get onto youtube and they are not here nor will they be for a while(my grandparents are babysitting me.) i have the email but i dont want them to know that i got in so one question--- when you click retrieve password does it send you the old password or does it give you a new, random password??

I think Im having the worst time of my life? wasting my life away?

If you have nice parents then try talking to them about it and maybe they'll be more sensitive to your situation and help you reach your goals of becoming the hard worker you once were. If not then just be forgiving with yourself, don't stress too much about it or you'll be too upset to enjoy playing or studying! There are always ups and downs in life and sometimes for apparently no reason, your body's chemicals can play tricks with your moods. So the best thing you can do is find some support and get back on track! The best way for me to overcome procrastination is to just do the first step, like open the book, or begin reading or writing. In my case the hardest part is getting started, once I take a step into the project then I get caught up with it pretty easy! Try that and see how it works for you, good luck and take care!

How do I change Gmail accounts on my iPhone 4?

I'm already logged in on my iPhone, but yesterday I had to change my Gmail password, and now when I go to the Gmail app on my phone it says "Cannot retrieve mail - user name or password for Gmail is incorrect" yet it doesn't give the option of signing out and logging back in anywhere.. How can I do this?

I need some answers please help?

Wow seems like a very hard life and your a strong person to be able to have gone through it all but you need to see some one about it like a therapist because your still afraid off many things and rightly so but you need to overcome these things and a therapist will help you and as for love well when you have some more friends and more confidence it will come around one day it will

How to do a summer makeover?

In 1 and a half weeks I have my summer holiday and I want to have a makeover ( I got 2 months btw) I'm 14 and not popular at skl at all every1 thinks I'm fat, ugly and stupud and I want to show them I'm not so what I want to do first is lose weight being honest I wanna lose about 15-20 kg. (I know I'm fat) and give me ideas how I'm going to my home (another country) with my family and meeting my actual friends also I want to change my look I was thinking of getting brown highlights in my dark brown/ black hair, I need to be more confident as well and be better and more hardworking (I come from a diff. Country so every1 thinks I'm very stupid) so give me ideas if u got something else, and what do ya think of the highlight idea and how can I lose weight. Best answer gets 10 points so plzzzz help me :) x

Itunes says my password is wrong?

ok at about 700PM today i made an itunes account that in the process of making i put 20$ on it. once the account was created i tried to sign in. it said my password was wrong, but i know for sure its right. so i tried it a few more times. then i figured heck maby i made a mistake so i tried all viable mistakes i could think of, none of those worked. so i tried to retrieve my password by answering my question, but before ittakes u to the question it asks for ur bday...so i typed that in and it said my bday was wrong.so i again i tried all viable screw ups all to no avail. so i tried getting it to email me the reset steps. but so far it hasnt sent the freakin email. wat did i do wrong? and how do i fix it? btw i have a 3rd gen. ipod nano (small and has the little wheel)

Sunday, August 7, 2011

What will they interrogate me about at the US embassy in Paris ? 10 points !?

It is called a visa interview and not an interrogation. The US Embassy officials wanna see you and confirm all you wrote on the visa application form.

I'm not an alcoholic but I want to give up alcohol 100% Is there a group or community that is right for me?

Here's the scoop: I drink maybe once a week, and I don't get drunk at all. However, every time I do drink it leaves me tired, grumpy, bored, and I have trouble sleeping. I know it sounds strange, but I just seem to struggle to give it up 100% on my own just because it is a habit, and it's so ingrained in so much socializing. Is there a group or community that could be right for me? I'm not sure if AA would really be appropriate for someone like me ....

Is There Any Way To Retrieve Chrome Bookmarks From A Backup In The C Drive?

I (uselessly) reset my Acer Aspire One whilst attempting to get my webcam working again. Anyone know if the backup data stored in the C drive contains a folder with all the bookmarks that I can use to restore my bookmark list? Thanks for all your help.

Team Fortress 2 stuck at "Retrieving Server info...please wait" ?

This happens to me too, I'm playing on a Mac but the servers are identical. In my experience after about one minutes stuck there it doesn't go anywhere else so just try another server. Keep trying until you get one, just be patient!

How can i overcome this fetish and be a normal person?

This fetish is to the point where my fetish had become very problematic.My foot and shoe fetish is so strong that I cannot get aroused by vaginal intercourse and have trouble maintaining an erection,I want to be able to please a woman :(.But I hear sexuality is something that is deeply ingrained in a person's psyche that it is difficult if not impossible to change like making a gay person straight and vice versa.I'm not aroused by womens genitalia ONLY her feet and certain types of shoes she wears which is a problem If I would like to have normal sexual intercourse.Its a problem I've had my whole life but I think its time to put an end to this,great advice would be of tremendous help right now.Right now I'm looking at pornography with vaginal intercourse for the purpose of trying to get aroused but sometimes its still very difficult.I have had this problem for so long,around 8 years aand it seems really hard to go a different direction at this point,that Is there any hope for change?plz no mean answers or answers on how I should embrace the fetish and make her wear certain types of shoes jus for my gratification,my goal is to be aroused by normal sexual intercourse to one day be able to please the woman I'm goin to spend the rest of my life with.If any one has had a similar experience as well and how they where able to overcome it that would be the best thanks in advance.

How to enjoy working out?

hi there, I have been having this same trouble since forever. I was taking all kinds of stuff. Till a friend show me these tips, I was skeptical at first. there was a bit of improvement for the first 2 weeks, but I was amazing. After losing that first bit of weight, which was so uplifting, I worked on eating right to continue to keep the weight off. I can't believe I hadn't try this sooner. This is where I found the information: www.1stloseweightnet.tk

I accidentally deleted Videos folder on my PC. How do I retrieve 100gb worth of files?

I was trying to clear shortcuts on my desktop and I accidentally ended up deleting the "Videos" shortcut without even knowing it would delete all my files. None of the videos are in the recycling bin... Is there I way I can restore them all or are my videos gone forever? ): Thanks.

Should I confront my wife?

... mate, open the door and let her go, do you really want to spend the rest of your life in termoil.

Casey Anthony's special rights for being an accused killer?

For superior court trials everywhere you are able to have dress clothes to go to court. Many trials last a longtime...its just they aren't publicized. A guy in WA had a trial that lasted off and on for 2 years.

Someone please give me a little honest advice? my marriage is crashing?

All I can tell you is that a couple of months ago my husband told me he did not love me anymore and wanted a divorce, but he was willing to work on it because he respected me. I tried really hard to not do the things that had upset him and while we are not out of the woods, he has recently told me he loves me a lot and wants to stay with me. I think that in a marriage people will freak out and have doubts, and this is just one of those times for him. If you try really hard to make it work, without bringing it up all the time, and understand that him acting bipolar shows he is unsure about divorce, then you will be fine. You were together for 15 years before this so I doubt 5 months of marriage is going to ruin it.

HELP! My front tooth veneer just fell off!!!?

You definitely had a bad dentist. I got veneers because my teeth were so b ad that it would've been 6 years in braces. My veneers look almost like perfect teeth. I hope your new dentist will do a lot better. All you can do is got to the dentist ASAP and have them fix it.

Can anyone help me make sense of this please?

Before you even try breaking his heart, you need to set a time where you can talk to him, when he is in a good mood, because if he is in a bad mood then his reaction will just be worse. I know it's hard to tell him these things but you can't go on living thinking that you made a mistake if you leave him for this guy, if you do that is.. And well tell him straight out about what you are thinking, just not about his friend just yet. Let him know you need him to change and if you don't see his progress if he does decide to change then you are there to do what you think is right. And if leaving him for his friend makes you happy, then do it because you cannot always be watching out for his happiness, you come first.

Can you recommend me a site in retrieving industry studies?

Help. This is for my project. I tried Euromonitor/JSTOR but I cannot seem to find that particular type of industry study, particularly travel magazines or magazines in general:(

Can there be any help for me? what is wrong with me?

If I could reach through the internet and give you a hug, I would. I am so sorry for the trials that you have had to face in your life, and from such a young age. Like you, I am in my 30's and have had my own struggles in life. I can tell you from experience that there are two things that will help to heal you. It sounds cheesy, but the 1st is God. And 2nd, is service. I found that the only thing that distracted me from my pain was helping others around me. It can be simple like buying a burger for the homeless guy on the corner... or telling someone they are beautiful. This really helped me to heal. Also, when I am feeling down, I like to watch the I Am A Mormon videos online. They are inspiring.

Why do Straight Girls never shout drinks/always expect guys to buy them drinks?

Yes! It is absolutely ridiculous! And then they look all surprised that no guys bought them a damn drink, because they "obviously deserve" it...

Help with pokemon pearl team?

Yeah, That seems like a pretty good team. Go to Veilstone City (The mall thing at the top edge of the city) and buy Thunder, Fire Blast, Blast Burn, Discharge, Charge Beam, ThunderShock and go to Fuego Ironworks and get FlameThrower from Mr. Fuego. I beat the Elite Four and Cynthia on my, like, 20th try. I tried to do it at (all pokemon) level 49 but I got my *** kicked. I beat it eventually at (all pokemon) level 60. My team is Infernape, Floatzel, Luxray, Lucario, Staraptor and Haunter.

What was AP English with Mrs. Foster like?

I know that first semester we read intriguing books like dorian gray that required analysis to understand as well as passages that helped us develop our skills as a reader like triumph of the yell. Our numerous essays included our essay on beauty, our self designed essay, and the experience essay. There were so many practice AP tests that helped improve my reading and writing as well as my cognitive thinking. I went on to get a 36 in reading on my ACT because the skills became so ingrained in my head. However I can't remember everything that we did second semester, it was all a blur. (P.S. You don't really have to answer this, it is for an English project :) )

Would a next state lock me up for a bench warrant or just notify me?

Most likely they will arrest the subject, and then notify that state or county that the subject is wanted out of, and then arrange for a way to extradite that person.

Why am I so thick headed and difficult?

im the same way, go out with your own friends, have a life other then him. and make friends with some of his friends, then you will be at ease because you will know some of them. when you find yourself thinking that way, think of something positive, think of something he said or did that was nice. as for a outlet, find something you like, like a class, or go to the gym.

How to build up???? 10 Points answer?

How to win over laziness & be more self-disciplined, hardworking. How can I have full control over my heart & head.

Is there any way to retrieve your Tumblr email and password?

I have two tumblrs so for my first one I used my main email address. I created another one, but I don't think you can use the same email for two accounts, so I THINK I used my gmail email address for the second one, but when I went to type it in for password recovery it said that there was no such email in their database. I have the URL...I just don't remember what email I used for the second account because you can't use the same email twice, right? Pleaseeeee please please help. By the way...I already had them send me a new password using my main email address and it sent me back to my first account...so I couldn't have used the same email for both accounts, right?

Can i get under 18:00 in a 5k?

My best time was 19:29 last year. How would i be able to achieve this goal. I'm a sophomore this year and hardworking.

My fiance doesn't drink that often, but when he does he get wayyy to drunk and doesn't stop drinking...he's 30?

people who have a need to get high on a regular basis (and very couple of weeks seems pretty regular to me) re drug addicts or alcoholics and no, he will not stop. he will become worse

Why did God create me to be miserable?

People have lied to you. Telling you that you should be lonely, by yourself, devoid of human touch or companionship so that they can feel good about their prejudice is nonsense. God is there, but you must also do things to help yourself. I urge you to get counseling and pray so that you get help from the two best sources. God loves you, don't give up! It's between you and God and don't let others who are too prideful to let go of their sin interfere with that! Blessings!

Any SAHM's with a husband who works a lot?

I'm a SAHM and my husband is a great guy but he works a lot...I get bored and depressed at home with my two toddlers...but they are bouncing off the walls and I feel sorry for them being in the house too long, so I tend to take them out at least 5 of the 7 days a week...that gets expensive which also makes me feel bad cuz my husband works so hard. I don't go on shopping sprees,but taking the kids to bouncy places and to eat fast food really adds up...and I do not really cook! Maybe cuz I'm not good at it or cuz my life sucks all my energy out lol...how do other SAHM's with hardworking hubbies deal with this? :)

LOOK :P What do you think of my response Poem? Offer any feedback.?

I think it comes off as forced, as you have bottled yourself in, as you try to rhyme those long ee words, to the point that the power of the poem is sapped by your whimsy

Can anyone provide an 'active' facebook account you do not need?

I need it for something to register for called 'skout'. It's for retrieving some reward. My fb account is too young and making a new fb account won't do because it 'has to be active'. Can anyone please help, it would be deeply appreciated ! :)

Is there a correlation between being a UFO believer and a 9/11 truther?

I think certain individuals/personality type are more prone to entertain fringe, conspiratorial ideas about their environment, stemming from an intrinsic trust issue ingrained in their psyche. I dare to say that there's a strong correlation between being a 9/11 truther and a Ufologist.

I think he has a problem will our roles being opposite of what he wants.?

If you want to snag this one, you certainly WILL NOT tell him you "don't care" about his values. Lol. No, instead, you should let him know how YOU feel about the issue, but try not to deride his values. If anything, you sound as if you already respect his feelings about it, so let him know that. Show him that though you understand his feelings about something like that, you do not necessarily agree. From there you can only hope he shares an interest in going to the next level with you if he can get past his own reservations about being the provider, etc. Hope this response was insightful.

My girlfriend is breaking up with me at the time i need her the most. what am i gonna do now?

i LOVE her. She's breaking up with me because she thinks im too emotional nd she doesnt have time for the drama. she says she has enough drama with her girlfriends. I was only emotional because my brother and my friend died at the same time and it's been really hard on me. my mind has been crazy. Then on top of that my parents are kicking me out the house because i flunked out of college. starting the first of next month i have to pack my bags and leave and i dont know where im supposed to go. I dont even have a car. I Have 2 fulltime jobs... EVERY ONE of my family members and friends are on my case.. everybody keeps saying im not good enough. i've been working my @$$, everytime i come home im tired as helllll. my gf was the one person who i thought loved me unconditionally and would never leave my side, cause my entire family is money hungry. but when i started crying she just up and left and told me she couldnt deal with someone so emotional. sometimes i feel like committing suicide. im doing all i can and nobody can see what a hardworking person i am. my gf's birthday was coming up soon and i was planning a huge suprise party for her and was gonna buy her a tiffanys ring, but now she is no longer in my life. someone please help me. I'm 23.

Saturday, August 6, 2011

Guys are not in favour of a girl who does martial arts? (I learned Muay Thai)?

I have been doing mixed martial arts for 8 years, and it is my lifestyle (Not like MMA they do on TV, it's actually decent self-defense). My boyfriend is perfectly fine with it, but some guys just want to have the opportunity to be the hero. Some guys don't like tough girls like us; they want soft and weak girlfriends to feel superior.

Why do teenagers do so much illegal stuff?

Depends on the teen. Some rebel against their families. Some do it to fit in. Some do it to seem cool, or for a problem they don't wish to face. But not all teens do illegal things. I mean, I do and I'm not even sixteen yet lol. But I'm not addicted to drugs or alcohol. I just tried the **** for fun. But then again I am dating someone over the age of 18....

Why do Straight Girls never shout drinks/always expect guys to buy them drinks?

I would never expect a friend of mine to buy my drinks, but I know that strange men will offer. I never buy rounds since I do not usually drink as much as others. I would rather pay my own way, and everyone else do the same.

Would you employ this person?

I don't own a business however If I did I would hire him I understand I need all the help that I can get It Its very simple actually.

Can't find companion in instructed to go to Lucky 38!!?

In Fallout New Vegas, I instructed Veronica while at the Mojave Outpost to return to the Lucky 38 so I could recruit Cass to complete a Van Graff quest. When I returned to the Lucky 38 to retrieve her, she was no where to be found. I've already checked where I picked up Veronica, and even waited for a while. Is there a solution to this?!

Do you think people are too narrow minded when it comes to dating?

I think it's due to people's inability to prioritize certain traits which they find are absolutely necessary vs traits that can be tolerated. I think alot of people don't find virtue and overlook crucial areas of compatibility (ie: whether world views, values, future plans and dreams) fall in line.

Christians do you realise.......?

I agree with you 100%, and it is all true, am glad some people have their facts and are willing to put them into words on this site, just imagine how many souls have been hurt & put through such intolerable pain over years-that is not religion, it is religion gone mad.

My "boyfriend" is really cheap?

As ridiculous as it sounds, you guys should set up a schedule where the both of you take turns paying. Say he'll buy the groceries and you'll take him out to dinner the next time. Or he'll pay for the movie and you'll buy the drinks and popcorn. But quite honestly, you should ditch the loser because quite frankly, he's taking you for granted.

I updated my iTunes and it erased my entire library- is it possible to retrieve it? What is the best way?

This has not happened to me before, but it should be easily fixed. Sync your ipod to your computer transfering all the songs. If this doesnt work, search for the files in your program files, sometimes they are stored here. Cheers.

Backing up iPod touch on computer please help?

So I backed up my iPod touch on iTunes but I don't have Internet. If I buy apps from my iPod touch and I backup my iPod, if I lost all my data would I be able to retrieve my apps that I purchased with my backup even though I dot have Internet? Thank you very much

Can you acquire faith?

We all have the same amount of faith, but we put it in different things. Some of those things don't pan out like the prodigal son. In a sense you are wondering if you aren't slopping the hogs yourself, but aren't ready to return to your father like the son did because you still associate God with your father and aren't sure if he has things right either. When you ask the questions, you will get answers and your faith will be directed toward truth instead of belief.

I'm desperate . I'm hardworking n hopeful n do the right thing but I can't succeed. What should I do? ?

I have faith , n positive that changes will come but nothing works. Someone please tell me in black and white of what I'm doing wrong . I feel worthless right now .

I don't want to be an abusive person, I need help.?

may be you should try taking up boxing karate paintballing or something else that you could let off steam with it seams you lose your temper you should talk to some one about your fears from what i have read you are looking for a mother figure who will understand your problems and you can cry on with out being embarrassed if you can control the point when you snap then you should consider talking to some one and letting all of your concerns out why you feel so angry get to the root of the cause and you will find the cure. it seems you have never had the mother love most people have had in there lives and it seems you need a companion who can give you that also you should question your sexuallity maybe you could be gay and denying it ?

What would you do if you were in my shoes?

You love him so then be with him! I wouldn't be worried about the college part, that is his decision. I would be worried about him attempting suicide twice...

Why do Straight Girls never shout drinks/always expect guys to buy them drinks?

Oh, gee, wouldn't it be kind of "discriminatory" if they they treated you differently solely because of your sexuality?

Any tips on dealing with a family problem?

If you are 18 or older, it is time to move out. I went through similar b.s. with my younger siblings. I am the oldest too. I used to take everything valuable with me to work or keep the big stuff at a friends house. All I did was sleep there until I got a place w/ a friend when I was 19. I am so sorry for you. I know how much it hurts. Take all of your valuables that you bought out of there ( no matter whose room they are in) and find a place to store them like I did. If you didn't buy it, leave it there. Start trying to find a place to live and maybe a friend to split the rent.

Can CPS take away your child for a messy apartment?

No, unless it could cause harm to the child, like old dog poop all over the place or broken glass bottle, but some toys and spills, no, no judge in the world would take away the kids for that. I would just invite them over and show them that I have nothing to hide, I guarantee that they will take a step inside the door, laugh at whoever reported you, and walk right back out. Its a huge tough process just to get kids out of the house for abuse or neglect, they arent going to do anything about a few messes as long as the child isnt in danger because of them.

How much is my stock worth?

My grandmother passed away several months ago and left everything to me. I just discovered that she had a second lock box at another bank and when I went to retrieve its contents I found documents indicating that she had 10,142 shares of the bank that my grandfather used to be president of back in the 70's. I was wondering how I could find out how much each share is worth. Should I call my stock broker or just call the bank? or is there anywhere that I could find it online? Thanks in advance!

Bible verse for great retiring teacher?

Ephesians 5:20 Giving thanks always for all things unto God and the Father in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ;

Can there be any help for me? what is wrong with me?

just remember this life either makes you or breaks u, whats it gonna do to u? are u gonna let it break u or make u?

I need help, which eeveelution for my team?

I think a flareon, since you don't have a fire type, and fire types come in handy with some of the pokemon you will be battling.

Do Japanese people like mexican people?

I'm dating a Japanese girl, we've been going out for 2 years now and I'm planning to propose to her this summer while we are visiting her family in Japan. I speak fluent Japanese but I'm scare of her parents i don't know how they're going to react. I'm a hardworking mexican,i work for a VFX studio and i get paid really good.

Tattoo Idea: "JUST DO IT" on my chest (not sure about a swoosh sign yet) What do you think?

Ever since 1988 (when the slogan first came out) my parents have said those three words to me to get me motivated. They would buy me clothing, school notebooks and anything else with "JUST DO IT" to ingrain that go-getter mentality inside me. I've been an athlete since I could stand and used that slogan on and off the field. It means the world to me...I just hope people would understand that and not think I'm some weirdo NIKE fanatic. This would be my very first tattoo and I have never had the urge to get one until it JUST hit me like a ton of bricks....what do you all think??

Religion doesn't support science? why?

Because knowledge is an enemy of Christianity. Why do you think the fruit Adam and Eve ate was called the fruit of KNOWLEDGE?

Does it look like i have a chance with this girl?

what are you waitin for ask her out it dont matter what others think it your life and hers you cant go around pleasing other people when its about you... life is short and make yourself happy

Why would my boyfriend remove these videos?

It's quite possible that the long distance relationship isn't working out for him. He might be finding himself feeling, perhaps, uncomfortable with or less inclined towards the sexy, physical side or your relationship, because of the length of time since you were last actually, physically together. You could be right about the possibility of breaking up, in which case you might want to be a little less intense with your pic/vid sharing, and leave the onus on him.

Rate and Improve my pokemon black Team?

Your old team is really good. Ok, Seismitoad is an okay poke with lowish-decent stats. You ecould replace mud shot since its not that good with Rain Dance, especially if u have swift swim. Zweilous, once it evolves at 64, you should replace Crunch-Fire Blast, Body Slam-Focus Blast, lol I copied what's his name. Work up you can keep or use Surf. Dark Pulse if you don't mind breeding all over again. Explosion on Ferrothorn. You should relearn Curse, since its Base speed is only 20. Relearn Gyro Ball bc it would be beast on Ferrothorn, over Iron Head since you won't be flinching. Payback is good too. You could wait until Lampent gets the moves I say or use the TMs. 2 sets for Chandelure: Hex, WOW, Flame Burst/Flamethrower, Psychic or i use Shadow Ball, Flamethrower, Psychic, Energy Ball. Inferno isn't recommended. I don't really now much about Sawk, but check Smogon for some good sets. Simisage, Vanilluxe, Victini, Swoobat, Simisear, Emolga have low stats, and Victini is just plain. Genesect isn't released yet. The others are good, as well as Elektross, Escavalier, Accelgor. My Battling team is Hydreigon, Landorus, Chandelure, Eelektross, Escavalier, and Ferrothron. Personal: Serperior, Scrafty, Stoutland, Chandelure, Golurk, and carracosta.

Should I drink to fit in at work, or not drink and look weird?

dont be a follower. be a leader. just sip on some water or something so your not the only one with a cup in their hand. theres no point to drinking. if you know drink now, than why start? be smart!

How does he do this magic trick?

i was watching the supernaturalist and during the show while on a moving bus, he asks a guy to pick a card at random which he then signs with a sharpie. he takes the card back in the deck and then throws the deck at the window and the signed card is on the other side of the window of the still moving bus. the most interesting part of this trick however is that he retrieves the signed card from the other side of the window without leaving the bus (through the glass allegedly). how is this performed?

I mess up when i talk?

I stumble on certain sounds because i try to move my lips mabually when i speak. I try to make speaking an unnatural process and it makes my speech very unclear. Ive done this for over 6 months and its ingrained deep in my brain. I am very angry that i struggle with my speech and i need it to stop? How can i start talking perfectly again?

How to retrieve deleted files ?

ok that's a kind of weird i deleted a file from my computer that i really need , and just that u know it was "too big" for the recycling bin so it's not there, i've tried different apps but non of them are working , any advice, would be greatly appreciated.

Can I do BCA after 10+2 without maths?

Hello reader! I just wanted to know whether I could do BCA after 12th without maths.I did Physics,Chemistry,Biology,English and IP in 10+2.I have a hardworking personality and great intrest in computer.My wish is to work abroad and like to earn a handfull.What are your opinions and advice me on other courses.Thank you for sparing your time.

How can I break this habit?

I have a terrible habit that I need to break. I start each day great - I work out, eat super healthy, have all these great plans, then at about 3pm I basically just give up. I start eating junk food, drinking beer and basically give myself permission to "start over tomorrow". I gorge on a bunch of junk and ruin everything. I can easily eat an extra 3000 calories in an afternoon/evening. This habit has become so ingrained that I don't even think about it half the time...it just happens.. I know this is stupid because it's my own doing but it is actually a really big obstacle for me. This happens almost every day! I don't understand why I keep doing this. Can you offer any advice? Thanks :-)

Help me? Am I gay, straight or Bisexual?

You have zero interest in guys. Dude, you're not gay. Just mature. A guy who can tell when another guy is good-looking and accept that is mature, not gay.

Are the Team Fortress 2 servers up?

Whenever I try to search for a server, the "Retrieving server info" message displays endlessly.

I don't remember my Hotmail account security answer?

thats why you always use a backup account instead of a security question... you can contact customer support, prove to them that you are the one who made the account and they will change the password, or try and figure who would hack your account

I have lost my bank book for my bank coventry buildings society,what happens next?

VISIT the bank with a photo ID and explain the situation. I don't know HOW they address the issue, but I KNOW they have dealt with this before.

Friday, August 5, 2011

Learning to sing. Is it worth paying for lessons?

Lessons with a fully trained teacher are CRUCIAL for a healthy and correct singing and breathing techniques and therefore the only SAFE way to learn them. Proper and correct techniques are the only ways to prevent vocal nodules, hoarseness and other nasties, which will easily ruin your voice for good.

Does being unhealthy affect your looks?

Yes, definitely! l always used to eat junk food and l mean ALWAYS but since l've been going to the gym, drinking 2 litres of water a day and eating lots of fruit and veg - my skin has improved dramatically (l used to have acne), l sleep better, my hair is shinier, and l have loads more energy. Honestly, change your habits; eat fruit, drink lots of water and your wellbeing as well as your skin and hair will improve, l promise you!

I want to end my life!! No one wants me! I'm a loser to my parents!?

Hi I'm an 18 year old. I'm from a village in south India. People here are usually poor. But my parents worked hard and are well off financially. And then we went abroad from India . But they keep comparing me with the "hard-working" kids back in India who struggle and get scholarships to university. I recently took the cbse exams (Indian exams) and got 87.8%. I got an acceptance into University of Nottingham(needs over 80% to get accepted) which is a good one. But I didn't get a scholarship (it needs 90%). They love to put me down because of this. They tell me I'd be a total loser without their money. They tell me I'd be fishing and laboring in the village if it wasn't for them. They tell me I'd be equal to s*** if it weren't for them!!!!!!!! I don't know what is their problem!! Why do I need a scholarship if they can easily afford the college fee?? Its $15,000 per year which is my MOM's 2 month salary. I am not a bad guy. I don't drink, smoke or party like many other rich kids do. I am still a virgin and I plan to remain until marriage. Moreover, I used to be a long distance track star in high school. I am still a good runner since I love cross country and road racing. They tell me that I should learn from the kids without money who study day and night and become successful on their own without parents' help. Whenever we visit our village, they have long chats with these poor guys...about their hardships and how they struggled to get their scholarships...and then make me feel worthless. I feel so miserable. I feel like a loser in life. Sometimes I feel i should just overdose on pills and die. Let them do whatever they want! spend their money on the "poor hardworking kids" or adopt someone better or whatever the F***. I'm sick and tired of this!! Please help me!

Once you've deleted a video off a computer is there any way you can get it back?

Okay so me and my boyfriend made a video on my webcam on my computer that i don't want anyone else seeing, so i deleted it and deleted it out of my trash. But im paranoid that if my parents or friends get on my computer that they might find it some how and i just want it off cause im really ashamed of it. What do i need to do? Or can anyone even retrieve it after its been deleted? Please help!

Why are there are so many questions about homosexuality in here? It's gender studies not homo studies?

Homosexuality as a sexual orientation does come under the purview of discussions that relate to gender.

Politics:Why liberals/leftists dont know that nationalism is natural?

Multiculturalism isn't about blending us all together, but as you said, appreciating the beautiful differences of those around us. It's about promoting peaceful understanding of our neighbors.

Do we really NEED religion?

As long as we are not able to see God in ourselves, we shall need religion. If we are able to let him be in us, then we can be ourselves religion is no longer needed.

What do you think of my pokemon diamond team so far?

maybe you could get a dark or dragon pokemon like gible gabite grachomp,dragonite,houndour spiritomb or just wait til you get dialga.

Im doing a Documentary On MISSION HILL Housing Project Located in Boston, Ma?

I was trying to find exclusive footage on the Old project when it was raided in 1994 by Boston Police. Is there any websites or any place i would be able to retrieve the footage from the raid back in 1994? There were helicopters hovering and everything and then a few years later they tore it down. Any help or suggestions

Social housing who is it for is it for British citizens if so can you tell our local council?

because of a relationship breakdown not of his doing my son finds himself homeless and camping in one bedroom of his parents home he is a hardworking person willing to pay rent and council tax but has been told at the age of 39 he has no chance of social housing .But low and behold 2 doors away from our house the council have housed a young eastern european woman on benefits I am totally incensed by this this woman who has no right to take housing that my son and many other british people need she already has young men hanging around no doubt thre will be more kids to pay for shortly i am in no way racist but I would not go to another country and expect them to provide me with a HOUSE PLUS BENEFITS PLUS FAMILY CREDIT AND GOD KNOWS WHAT ELSE. WE WORKING IDIOTS OF PENSION AGE ARE PROVIDING THEM WITH AN EASY LIFE AND WHERE DID SHE GET THAT EXPENSIVE CAR FROM AM I PAYING FOR THAT AS WELL CAN SOMEONE PLEASE TELL ME HOW SHE GOT THIS HOUSE I NEED TO KNOW SO I CAN TELL MY SON AND MAYBE HE CAN LIE AND CHEAT HIS WAY TO GETTING SOCIAL HOUSING ITS TIME THE GOVERNMENT AND COUNCILS LOOKED AFTER BRTISH PEOPLE BORN AND BRED WHO ARE HARD WORKING AND SIMPLY WANT WHAT IS THEIR RIGHT . GET A BACKBONE BRITAIN AND LOOK AFTER YOUR OWN CITIZENS NOT ALL THESE ECONOMIC IMMIGRANTS

I lost my desktop how can i retrieve it?

You must have ended a program incorrectly from Task Manager. there probably is a way but ive never found it. I have to force a shut down and restart :(

Why do some women try to justify being shallow?

For example, why do some women say they like rich men because those men are hardworking and successful? In reality, these women would go for a rich man who is a lazy slob that inherited his wealth. Or, why do some women say they like attractive men because those men take care of themselves, exercise, and eat right? In reality, these women would go for an attractive man who eats crap, doesn't exercise, and just has good genetics.

MSN help retriving a passowrd?

So I have a veryy oldd msn account i mean its been years! So I forgot my password and went to reset.... I typed in the security thingy and the email address i wish to recover but it says that they don't recognize it. When one of my accounts clearly have that account linked to it.. WTF can i do this email address means alot and i need to retrieve the password. By the way, now you ahve to ype ur email and then you select the method you wish to retrieve it by.

I didn't pick up my permesso di soggiorno...can I still retrieve it?

I left Italy in April 2010 and didn't think I'd return. The economic crisis was a deterrent and my employment status had changed from employee to agent (actually my employer had to downsize and asked that I get off the payroll and become an independent agent). In order to preserve my relocation benefits, I chose to return to the US and not take financial risks with the recession. Now, I'd like to return to Italy, but wondered if I can still pick up the permesso di soggiorno at the police station. Do I need to start from scratch? It's been a year since I lived in Italy, and it took 2 years for the government to issue the permesso di soggiorno. It was so ironic that it was finally issued AFTER I got laid off.

How to get a summer makeover?

In 1 and a half weeks I have my summer holiday and I want to have a makeover ( I got 2 months btw) I'm 14 and not popular at skl at all every1 thinks I'm fat, ugly and stupud and I want to show them I'm not so what I want to do first is lose weight being honest I wanna lose about 15-20 kg. (I know I'm fat) and give me ideas how I'm going to my home (another country) with my family and meeting my actual friends also I want to change my look I was thinking of getting brown highlights in my dark brown/ black hair, I need to be more confident as well and be better and more hardworking (I come from a diff. Country so every1 thinks I'm very stupid) so give me ideas if u got something else, and what do ya think of the highlight idea and how can I lose weight. Best answer gets 10 points so plzzzz help me :) x soz bout asking this again, just want more answers xxx

Why is speaking so difficult for me?

Hey I'm a 16 year old male and the majority of the things you say I can relate to. When I was in elementary school, I took speech therapy that had to do with comprehension & my "brain to mouth function." They told me my brain was thinking faster then my mouth could move and it would sometimes "overwhelm" my mouth. Once I stopped taking therapy in middle school it came back and to this day the majority of the things you've mentioned happen to me. I'm not an expert, but from personal experience I would recommend that before you even say something, make sure your relaxed and know exactly what to say. I know we don't think about what we say but like for me, I'll start saying something and I just lose track of what I'm saying and might mumble. Try and to practice slowing you speech down and overtime you'll become acustom to thinking before you speak and making sure your relaxed enough inorder to avoid trying to get to many words out at once and either mispronounce words or not be able to get a word out. It sounds to me that all of what youve mentioned seems to effect you a lot more than it does to me. So it might not be a bad idea to look into getting some speech therapy, I know I will if my speech starts to really hinder me badly.

How do so many laws get passed that nobody agrees with?

It is all related to the competitive nature of politics, politicians do not consider what is best for the country or the people only on what will get them the most votes. This is a bipartisan answer as all politicians from all parties do the same thing.^^

I will give you 10 points if you help edit my paragraph?

Before being sent away to the concentration camps, Mr. Wiesel lived in Sighet with his family - ”the Jewish community in Sighet held him in the greatest esteem". He was a very kind man, but rarely did he show his emotions. Like many Jews before him, he was sent to the concentration camps where he was separated from his wife and daughters. Fortunately, he was able to stay close to his son who he remains with throughout the journey. As well as being an honest and protective father, he was also attached to his son , since he is the only family member left remaining. An example of this attachment occurred when Mr. Wiesel was separated from his son at one point. Unable to endure the separation, Mr. Wiesel took the risks , and sneaked to the side of the stronger males where his son was. He was aware of the consequences he would face if he was caught, yet the chance to be with his son was more important to him than anything. Although Mr. Wiesel was independent, he became increasingly weak due to the inhumane conditions , inwhich he and the others had to live, in the concentration camps. As much as he hated it, he became more dependent on his son. Soon enough, the once independent, determined, and hardworking leader is almost as defenseless as a child. His body started to fail and his health deteriorated every day to the point where he finally died. Before the time of his death, Chlomo became sick and lost all his strength, "He grew weaker day by day…his face the colour of dead leaves". Both changes take place as a direct result of Chlomo's imprisonment , and his experiences give us a realistic view of the impact and horror of WAR.

How to retrieve ipod nano video onto your computer ?

I found the files and moved them to my documents but when I try to connect them to movie maker their not there.. Help ?

Really need a summer job, but I haven't ever worked!!! HELP?

We have all been there and employers know you have to start somewhere. K-Mart, Walmart, McDonald etc all hire college students to work part time in the summer. They expect you to be somewhat smarter than their average customer, know enough to show up on time and ready to work and not try to tell anybody how they should be running the store. The pay will be crappy, the hours will be worse and most of your fellow workers will be from the shallow end of the gene pool but they have something you don't have, work experience. Luck!

Why does my Team Fortress 2 keep saying 'retrieving server information' when I click 'start playing'?

I installed TF2 and after 7 hours of installing everything seemed to be working perfectly but the online play. I clicked 'start playing' and it just says 'retrieving server information please wait.' So I waited about a half an hour and it still said it. So I uninstalled and reinstalled it, which took another 7 hours, and it says the same thing. I've tried restarting my steam, reinstalling the game, restarting my computer, and also restarting my router but nothing seems to change or help. Any ideas on why this is happening or what I can do to fix it? Thanks!

My mom are about to sent me?

ok so I got caught smoking weed, this is the 2nd Time I got caught. Difference is this time my mom see me smoking. The last time I got caught, she say if she ever caught me smoking again she gonna sent me to live with my dad (he a drug addict, so my mom divorce him n now he live in Germany). Soo this time she say she gonna sent me away to my dad. I say I'm sorry but she don't really care anymore i feel so bad. I was stupid for even thinking to do it again. I did this cause is the last day of school. N I want to celebrate, I know I was wrong. My mom is a stressful lady she is very hardworking, she care for the whole family. She is also pregnate. What can I do now? What should I say to her? Should I move, I don't want to move. My future is to be an American citizens. What's the smart thing should I do now? Please help me on this one

How do you retrieve bookmarks from the new yahoo mail?

Download and install the newest/latest yahoo toolbar go to a href="http://us.toolbar.yahoo.com/"http://us.toolbar.yahoo.com//a for the download and install.

Reaching the snapping point?

I'm a nice guy that doesn't go out of my way to bother people. I'm not shy though, sometimes i'm a bit loud and boisterous. I'll be the first person to tell someone what I think, or help someone out when they need it. But sometimes, I wind up in crappy situations, where someone wants to pick a fight with me. I always ignore it or back down, mostly out of fear of going to jail. I can count probably 3 times within the year where I could've drug out with someone but didn't. I know that it's always better to avoid fights unless someone tries to hurt you, but it's kinda ingrained in guys to respond when your called out. I'm a scary looking guy, and some people think i'm crazy. But I don't look for trouble, and fighting always makes me nervous, as it should because it's messy and dangerous. Just to relieve some of the guilt and feeling of cowardice though, I feel like slugging the next person who calls me out, consequences be dammed. What do you guys think?

Which would you rather have?Manliness or intelligence?

You're right in that intelligence is useless with out integrity and character. That's very true. That seems to be part of the dilemma with the current White House (US) administration. But according to how you have defined both manliness and intelligence, I too would have to go with manliness - if it represents productivity, common sense, trust, helping your neighbors, and a sense of right and wrong. But I also think these traits require a degree of intelligence too. So I haven't really answered your question, have I. LOL.

Thursday, August 4, 2011

Should I go to a strip club?

Definitely don't go. You don't need to do that to yourself. Don't break your promise with yourself about seeing your girlfriend first. It's better that way. If you were to go, you'd be putting yourself down. You're better than that...do not go.

Am I gay? Please help me?

This is most likely just natural development of your self. These ideas and feelings usually go away with time.

No tagline... just some honest advice... please?

Since I don't know how old u both r I'm guessing and thinking , he might be close to middle age? If I'm wrong about that I can only tell u to not to get into any arguments with him and more or less, ignore his ways for a while until he makes the first move wanting to have an honest conversation with u about problems. You both could use some professional help to find ur ways back together. I totally understand what ur saying in how ur feeling after loosing ur job etc......myself went through similar feelings and some much worse after I closed my business for retirement, had to due to health issues but still, it was tough to fell needed, usefull and other weird feelings including fighting the depression and wanting to end it. It took a long time to adjust and he needs to be understanding, if he cant and or not want to get help with u, then I say he's using ur emotional upset as an excuse to get on alone. GET HELP FIRST, GOD BLESS U.

What were your thought on the Hunger Games Trilogy?

I liked the first one the most. Most action, and to me the most emotion. The other two weren't as good as the first, but it actually surprised as how it all ended. Katniss with Peeta? I had hoped Gale would have stayed as the Uncle or something, since he was like family to Katniss but he left. And I didn't know there was a cast already. Where did you read that?

How to increase your sight reading ability?

Hey, so I've played piano for about 5 years now, I can sight read violin (played for 8 years) like a beast, and can sight-read tenor part like a beast. Haha, not bragging... just saying I've got that down. Anywho, in piano, I feel like I've gotten rather good at emotion and all that jazz, but I feel like the only thing holding me back is my sight reading in piano! Putting both of the clefs together! It takes me a while to learn a piece, and most of the time I just memorize the part and practice it over and over till it's ingrained in the early stages. I would like to be able to just play through music! My teacher said you just have to literally do that--just run through music. Can anyone add to this? Any techniques or methods that have worked for them? Thanks!

Retrieve forgotton password?

I would like to uninstall my facebook account but I forgot my email password. How do I go about doing this

Believers in heaven/hell would you go to hell to retrieve a loved one, if you could?

Say God let you keep their memory, and made a special exception, that you could go to the hell to try to retrieve a loved one, but that no one would come if you got caught up in it to save you? Would you do it? If you would than you would be better than your God! , more loving, more good.

Why is everyone negative?

I have noticed that most people like to mostly add negative comments to a conversation. For example - "Do you know what I hate...", or "This line is taking so long" or "I'm so tired of that". Why can't people say "I wouldn't prefer that" or "this line is long, but I'm happy to be getting this done and they are probably just backed up". Why do we feel so entitled? Americans are twice as rich as they were in the 70's and they rank no happier b/c of it, Japan is 6 times as rich as in the 50's and they are not any happier either. If you own a car you are richer than 84% of the world's population. We live in the U.S. and even the poor are so much richer than everyone else, but still I hear how bad things are nowadays or "where this country is headed". Studies prove most of the time rich successful people are no happier than the average person, you choose to be happy. I am trying to reduce negativity from my life, but 98% of people are just ingrained in a this could be better mindset. Why does so much of our thought revolve around negativity instead or positivity and great-fullness?